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	<title>Mark Hamilton&#039;s Neothink Essence</title>
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		<title>Rising to the Top!</title>
		<link>http://www.neothinkessence.com/mindsnap/cross/rising-to-the-top/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 May 2012 19:59:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you sit in your chair today, stop for a moment to ponder, to introspect. Who will make you rise from that chair? Who ultimately determines the thoughts in your mind as you sit quietly in that chair? Now, that you have answered the questions, you get to make a choice. Yes, you still possess [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you sit in your chair today, stop for a moment to ponder, to introspect.  Who will make you rise from that chair?  Who ultimately determines the thoughts in your mind as you sit quietly in that chair?   Now, that you have answered the questions, you get to make a choice.  Yes, you still possess the power of choice.  Will you sit in the chair and continue your rut or will you begin to use the power of choice to let the winds be at your back instead of knocking you over?  </p>
<p>Your perspective of life emanates from within.  Yet, we often believe we are doing what we do “for a living” because someone else is pressing from outside.   There may be barriers placed upon you, but, often when one introspects the barriers miraculously fall away.  The walls come down, so to speak, and you can start building a brand-new foundation.</p>
<p>Arise from that chair with a fresh perspective rather than continue your stinking thinking.  You were born with the power to create and shape your life.  You used that power well as a toddler when you told an adult “No!”  Stop saying “No!” to the most important adult in your life – you!  Begin today as you add some play to your day, and some pep to your step.</p>
<p>Rising to the top begins when you decide to do something new with your stance.  Only you can determine what posture you want to carry around.  Stand tall, let the others watch you, begin delivering new values the world has yet witnessed, as you begin rising to the top!</p>
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		<title>Shall We Dance in the Moonlight?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 14:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill Reed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shall we dance in the moonlight? Will you dance with me please? For us to enjoy this moment together, we each must know we can dance, and, we must trust each other to be our very best. Our gift of dance is not gender based, reliant upon a region or religion, nor a lack of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shall we dance in the moonlight?  Will you dance with me please?  For us to enjoy this moment together, we each must know we can dance, and, we must trust each other to be our very best.  Our gift of dance is not gender based, reliant upon a region or religion, nor a lack of any of these.  We are two dancers and we are heading to the moonlight.  We shall not see the color of our eyes or skin for the moon is so slender.    </p>
<p>The curve of your spine and the curve of mine are very similar.   We have no need to speak for the music of love is our guide.  Oh the hand of Mother Nature made us so similar.  Yet to know the difference requires we go on a moon walk together.  Together we shall discover the sun rises and falls, as do our chests while we breathe in the intoxicating scent of the briar bush and the sweet scent of each other.   We need not feel uncomfortable with the way that we step or breathe as this is the newness of life the world over.   </p>
<p>Over and over again, we step into the darkness.   We discover that each step and breath, in-tune with the beat of Mother Earth, brings us together and we begin to dance.   Some would lead us to believe that we are so different, just to remain in power.  But I have learned that I am empowered when you dance in the moonlight with me.  Please dance in the moonlight with me so that you might also feel this intoxicating power.  Oh, to lead with your heart and take another’s hand is so very invigorating.</p>
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		<title>What type of Leader are you,” A Brick Layer or a Stone Mason?”</title>
		<link>http://www.neothinkessence.com/business/what-type-of-leader-are-you%e2%80%9d-a-brick-layer-or-a-stone-mason%e2%80%9d/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 01:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharpguy</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Business]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Every time I think about today’s education system I hear Pink Floyd’s Another Brick in the Wall song playing in the back of my mind. I current education system was based on the needs of the industrial revolution. Factory workers needed to be made in short order that were able to read, write and perform [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every time I think about today’s education system I hear Pink Floyd’s Another Brick in the Wall song playing in the back of my mind. I current education system was based on the needs of the industrial revolution. Factory workers needed to be made in short order that were able to read, write and perform basic math functions. Being able to memorize sequences was a necessary commodity of the day.</p>
<p>In today’s work force we need flexibility of skills. Chances are you are not doing the same job you did even a decade ago. There has been real progression and for many factories, automation in the world. So I ask myself, why do we still teach the way we did 200 years ago. Honestly our system while it has modernized it’s deliver method with advanced audio, video, and computer learning the message is still the same. You need to be a brick in society to be usable, hence, my reference to Pink Floyd earlier.</p>
<p>How do we change the system? I submit to you that the change has to come at the leadership level. Leaders must become master stone masons. When I say that think about a wall. Bricks are made uniformly and stacked neatly in rows. They are easily handled and quickly assembled.</p>
<p>Stones on the other hand are not uniform. They require more skill to build with and pose several other problems that bricks don’t.</p>
<p>So why would I want to build with stone as opposed to bricks? Stones are individual. I don’t have to have someone mold them I just have to fit them together. It also takes fewer stones than bricks to form a structure.</p>
<p>In conclusion, when people are trained to be bricks in a wall you only see a small part of the person and you only get limited use of that person. Most people feel underutilized at their job and I think we all can remember issues in school we had as the teachers tried to form us all into the same mold.</p>
<p>If we treat people like stones, individually yet working together you are going to find happier people and you will get more work done with fewer people this way. As a leader all you really have to do is take some time to find each person’s motivational point and tie it to your goals. Then be smart enough to step back and watch the magic!</p>
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		<title>Vote with Love in Your Heart</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 01:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill Reed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Timely Thoughts]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When you look to the New Year do you look upon it with hope for another year to create within, or, do you look to another to create something within that year for you?  Creativity brings happiness, so, the way to a Happy New Year is to create it.  What will you create in the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you look to the New Year do you look upon it with hope for another year to create within, or, do you look to another to create something within that year for you?  Creativity brings happiness, so, the way to a Happy New Year is to create it.  What will you create in the approaching year?  Do you long for prosperity and happiness?  Then, consider helping to create the Prime Law Movement within the Twelve Visions Party.  </p>
<p>The Prime Law guarantees the conditions for you to prosper and live happily by forbidding the use of force, threat of force, fraud or coercion.  If you fail to move forward in your life is that a force upon yourself and your natural evolution as a human being?  What will you do in 2012 that will put you in the place you always knew you should reside?  </p>
<p>Do you believe you should prosper and live happily?  Then, come create a civilization where we live in wealth, health and peace.  Do you feel the conditions exist for you to prosper and live happily today?  Then, come help create that place you want to live within.  Would you support a law that guarantees the conditions for you to prosper and live happily?  Then, choose the Prime Law over a Politician in 2012.  Bring in the Year of Love and Let the Stress of Politics flow downstream—quit being the dam—vote for yourself in 2012.  Vote with love in your heart instead of casting a “Vote for the Lesser of the Two Evils.” in stress.  It is your turn to choose love over stress and to prosper and live happily!</p>
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		<title>Can You See Life Differently?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 22:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you were young, did you believe the world was flat, from your perspective of walking down the street?   Was it perplexing to accept the concept that it isn’t flat when your school teacher informed you that your flat walk to school wasn’t flat at all?  Do you remember feeling like you would never “grow-up” [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you were young, did you believe the world was flat, from your perspective of walking down the street?   Was it perplexing to accept the concept that it isn’t flat when your school teacher informed you that your flat walk to school wasn’t flat at all? </p>
<p>Do you remember feeling like you would never “grow-up” soon enough?  Do you remember your first date?  Did you see life differently then than you currently see it?</p>
<p>Do you hear the insects in the grass or see the green grass? </p>
<p>How you see life can make a world of difference to you.  You see, your control of the things, that matter and are in your control, can make a world of difference to yourself and others. </p>
<p>Would you rather live life or endure life?  Do you have vision or blindness in your thoughts?  You see—how you see life is what matters! </p>
<p>You can be certain of this—all you have is the flow of attention.  Where does your attention flow?  Do random thoughts of the thoughts of others dictate your attention’s flow? </p>
<p>Do you pluck a random thought and make it a reality?  Or, do you integrate thoughts to build solid solutions? </p>
<p>Are you tired of being controlled or are you still trying to find success controlling another adult in your life? </p>
<p>Would you like to be let in on a little secret that can change how you see and live your life?  Ask yourself this two-fold question when something is requiring too much attention: “Am I filling my mind with more or less stress and does this bring me to success?”  You see, only you can provide the life you are meant to live because you have to figure it out on your own to be fulfilled rather than feel value-less. </p>
<p>Can you see life differently?</p>
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		<title>Imagination</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Sep 2011 18:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can you imagine a world without taxes?  Why not?  Have we bought into “a bill of goods” for so long that we don’t see how we give our politicians and bureaucrats “double the pleasure” while we curtsey to their futures?  For a moment “steal” your mind from the media, politics and religion.  “Still your mind” [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Can you imagine a world without taxes?  Why not?  Have we bought into “a bill of goods” for so long that we don’t see how we give our politicians and bureaucrats “double the pleasure” while we curtsey to their futures? </p>
<p>For a moment “steal” your mind from the media, politics and religion.  “Still your mind” to youthfulness, a time when you believed you could “hang the moon” and you accepted the possibility that a “cow jumped over the moon” while you were still “full of vinegar” with ideas and energy beaming from you.   Where did those ideas and “all that energy” go?  It hasn’t left; you simply stuffed your ideas for those of others—so “still your mind” once again.</p>
<p>Imagine a world without taxes which allows you to choose the services you want to pay for—why not?  Steal your mind back by simply asking “Why?” like an innocent, yearning, learning child does all of the time! Is it just my imagination or do you see a brighter nation?</p>
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		<title>Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill</title>
		<link>http://www.neothinkessence.com/featured-articles/outwitting-the-devil-by-napoleon-hill/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Sep 2011 18:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharpguy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This book is definitely different than any other NH book I have read. If you have read Think and Grow Rich you may recall that NH formed an imaginary council in his mind and communed with them daily. He studied each member of his council and over time they all started to take on their own characteristics in his mind.  He states in his book that they became so real to him it scared him and he discontinued meeting with them.

It appears that NH applied this technique to the Devil.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a new release from the Napoleon Hill (NH) Society which I found interesting since Napoleon Hill passed away in 1970. The explanation for the delay was that Mrs. Hill was so scared of the fallout from the topic that she refused to let Mr. Hill publish it. The manuscript was handed down to the next generation of Hill and they had the same concern. Finally one of the ancestors was brave enough to release the manuscript to the NH society for publication.</p>
<p>What I find interesting is I have not heard of this book from any main stream sources which is unusual because I am an Amazon Affiliate Online seller and NH books and audios are one of the main items I push. I heard about this through Marshall Sylver, the hypnotist that runs Get Rich Radio.</p>
<p>This book is definitely different than any other NH book I have read. If you have read Think and Grow Rich you may recall that NH formed an imaginary council in his mind and communed with them daily. He studied each member of his council and over time they all started to take on their own characteristics in his mind.  He states in his book that they became so real to him it scared him and he discontinued meeting with them.</p>
<p>It appears that NH applied this technique to the Devil.</p>
<p>NH starts the book with a story about his life leading up to the penning of the manuscript. NH’s bank had gone under during the great depression and he lost his house and basically all his money. While trying to rebuild he encounter other problems that made him question his years of teaching. NH then has a turning point in his thinking and his “Other Self” emerges. This is the point where his life turned around and he truly started living what he taught.</p>
<p>It is this “Other Self” that is able to look the Devil in the eye and demand truthful answer. So at this point the book changes from a story format to an interview format. I found this to be very refreshing. It made for a quick read.</p>
<p>Right off the bat it is clear to see where the controversy for publishing comes from. NH asks the Devil who he is and to describe himself and God. What follows is the most unique explanation I have ever heard or read. The answer is a theology meets quantum physics explanation and it just spun the thinking around in my head as only really new and different ideas can.</p>
<p>Now this is over 200 pages so I can’t give a critique of everything but I will give you a few points that stuck in my mind:</p>
<ul>
<li>The process the Devil uses to capture 98% of everyone in the world.</li>
<li>The only way the 2% escape him.</li>
<li>Why most churches and schools are actually aiding his cause.</li>
<li>The trick you need to know to keep from being recaptured once you escape.</li>
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<p>In the Neothink™ Society our main tool is integrated thinking.  As a member, it was a real joy to fit NH’s new book into the context of the Neothink™ literature, which has been evolving for decades after NH’s death. This in a way is a form of educational archaeology.</p>
<p>I recommend everyone read this book. I warn you that there are times you are going to be offended, based on your beliefs. If you have an open mind you will get a lot out of this book.  If you have a closed mind you are going to hate this book. If you are wise, you are going to follow the suggestions in this book whether you liked the book or hated it. </p>
<p>Finally if you are not a member of the Neothink™ society and you are debating on joining then read “Outwitting the Devil” and if you find yourself wiser in so doing then joining the Neothink™ society is really your next logical step!</p>
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		<title>Signs of Life!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2011 18:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill Reed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Timely Thoughts]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Remember when you  looked up, looked down and all around?  Remember when you contemplated being able to fly?  Remember racing your bike and your best friend with your “own two feet”?  Can you remember “standing tall” to reach something or to be seen as “mature”?    Do you remember “a bit of fear” while learning to: [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Remember when you  looked up, looked down and all around?  Remember when you contemplated being able to fly?  Remember racing your bike and your best friend with your “own two feet”?  Can you remember “standing tall” to reach something or to be seen as “mature”?  </span></span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Do you remember “a bit of fear” while learning to: swim, jump rope, climb a tree, or pour the first hot beverage?  Learning something new and searching for answers are signs of life.  Find your own footprints once again as you “think on your feet”.  Look up, look down, look all around, and, do something wise today to demonstrate signs of life.</span></p>
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		<title>Ten Signs of Awakening Your Inner Child</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jun 2011 21:22:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Undefeated Life</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Time and space in a complicated life, tend to cause us to detach from ourselves so that seemingly, life&#8217;s burdens do not trouble us too much. In doing this we detach ourselves from our inner being. However, within each of us is the innate ability to move beyond circumstances and into fully integrated perceptions and [...]]]></description>
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<p>Time and space in a complicated life, tend to cause us to detach from ourselves so that seemingly, life&#8217;s burdens do not trouble us too much. In doing this we detach ourselves from our inner being.</p>
<p>However, within each of us is the innate ability to move beyond circumstances and into fully integrated perceptions and thought. This becomes our vehicle towards the re-birth of the inner child. You were never meant to suffer, to be discouraged, to be defeated, to be troubled.  You were always meant to enjoy happiness, peace, great amounts of love, and its greater effect of loving the world around you.</p>
<p>Within each of us is the power of a living consciousness that comes to us when we seek it with our heart, soul, and mind as one. I hope that you enjoy this video&#8230;.I love the music&#8230;Close your eyes, feel the freedom of liberating peace and harmony as you give yourself this little moment of calm and quiet.</p>
<p>With Love to you all&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Cultivate Captivation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jun 2011 21:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Have you taken a soft-look at your loving relationship lately?  Do you still find fascination with your partner?  Are you captivated by their creativity and honesty towards your relationship?  If so, you are within a growing relationship, so, be sure to add fascination to the relationship as well!  If you find little to be fascinated [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> Have you taken a soft-look at your loving relationship lately?  Do you still find fascination with your partner?  Are you captivated by their creativity and honesty towards your relationship?  If so, you are within a growing relationship, so, be sure to add fascination to the relationship as well!  If you find little to be fascinated about, and, little communication exists between the two of you, you may be sharing a relationship that is control-based. </p>
<p>As adults we do not need to control each other.  Letting go of control on another, and, no longer allowing another to control you, allows for creativity and pleasurable moments.  As children we need protected so creativity flourishes.  As adults freedom allows creativity to re-surface and our creative imaginations can add value to our relationships.  Freedom and creativity move a relationship into a new dimension, a service-based relationship. </p>
<p>Are you ready to move from a power-based relationship to a service-based relationship?  If so, simply look back to joy filled moments.  Remember how good it felt to create together, and, how much fun it was in the beginning.  Find ways to serve your partner again to build happiness, and, before you know it, you will find your own needs served more often too!   Be captivating (fascinating) not controlling to add value to life.</p>
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