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My wife is from the Philippines and she has a subscription to the Filipno channel online. Saturday night she was at our computer, which is right next to our TV, watching her soap operas. My son and I were channel surfacing and finally settled on a funny but scary show (I will explain later). So we all sat in the living room and I would glance at what my wife was watching (She uses headphones so I couldn’t hear it) and she would glance at what we were watching.

Sunday morning arrives as usual after Saturday night and while we were drinking coffee she started telling me about a dream she just had. It seems we were back to our old residents and our son was young again. We were in a bar and a couple of girls kept stareing at me and one finally came over and started playing with my hair (Obviously a while back since I have been bald for a while). Well she said she smacked the girls hand and the girl got up and left. My wife was now mad at me and so she got up and went out to the car.

Now it gets weird. Still mad about the incident inside, she decided to drive around. While she was driving she got lost. After finally stopping to ask for directions she was pointed in the right direction to get back to pick us up but that the road to get there was dangerous. So she started driving down the road and out of no where a dinosaur started to run at her car! She tried backing up but the dinosaur was very fast and started banging on her car. Then a truck behind her saw she was in trouble and started to honk. This got the dinosaurs attention and she sped away.

She made it back to the bar and my son and I were now mad but when we saw how frightened she was and the damage to the car we forgot all about the bar incident. End of dream

I told my wife that she couldn’t watch TV anymore. She looked at me funny and said why. Here is why. The girls on your shows are always fighting for some boy so that explains the bar seen. “What were we watching on TV last night?” I asked. “I am not sure” she replyed. “We were watching Americas Worst Driver on the Travel channel and guess where they were? Seattle. ” Our home where are son was born and the drivers are given all kinds of things to do and points are deducted every time they brake a law or get lost. So these people are driving around downtown lost and you were seeing sites that are familiar.

Finally I said do you know what they do to the loser of that show? She shook her head no. They demolition the losers car so they can’t drive. Did you notice how they did that last night? No again with the head shake. Robosaurous! a 40 ft robot dinosaur came over to the last two cars and grabbed the losers car and picked it up into the air. Breathed a little fire on it and then put it in it’s mouth and literally cut it in half with it’s huge metal jaws.

So lets recap.
Bar scene = Philippine Soap Opera
Driving lost in Seattle = Driving lost in Seattle
Dinosaur Chase = Robosaurus devouring loser

You can’t tell me that TV doesn’t influence our subconscious after that!

If you think you can, If you think you can’t, You’re Right! Do you think there is not power in words? Where do words come from within us? What do they mean? Some things you might ask yourself…if you explore this area of your life.

It is about becoming conscious in the way we use language. The words we use come from our perspective on how we are thinking and feelings about ourselves and our endeavors we undertake. These can show our choice of attitude in facing life and living it. Words can respect and honor ourselves, or they can sabotage our becoming, setting us up for failure. It is our choice, if we allow ourselves to become aware. Otherwise, we are just following our earlier programming.

Programming and conditioning are working on us from the day we were born, and is comprised of repetition, over and over again, in almost all areas of life, ie.every hour of every day of every week of every month of every year since we were born. That is alot of repetition! We hear it at home growing up from our parents and relatives, from our friends, from our neighborhoods, churches, schools & books, political icons, and any teacher/mentor, etc.

When you hear the word Neurolinguistic Programming there may be a resistance that develops to the idea of using any neural technology to “reprogram” your Self. However, you may think of NLP in this way: It is neural reconditioning we can apply, because of Brain Plasticity, or the ability Humans have that gives them the capability of rewiring our brain circuitry, when this will benefit us! I do speak of NLP only in the use of Language we use. Its use is much broader than this, if you care to look into it further.

With NLP, the word hypnosis comes up early on. Thus the language we use when we talk to ourselves and our friends has the capability of self hypnosis. This is how it will be handled in this post. I am not looking at how you can hypnotize yourself, since you’ve already done this, but how you can develop awareness of your expertise in this area and be able to interrupt the “old” process, and develop new neural tracks that will benefit you, allowing the “old” tracks to dissipate through disuse.

There are certain words we use that I will call “inbetween words”, such as: I wish, probably, hopefully, I may, I might, maybe, I hope, we’ll see, It could be, etc. There are other words, but what they all have in common is their leaving room for doubt, showing a lack of self confidence, enabling you to put off outcomes for later that show you are not fully invested in what you are doing=all of this points more to a negative result for your intention.

In order to prove this to yourself, that you engage in this use of language, take a period of ~5-7 days and just observe yourself. Observe, but do not censor yourself. Allow to be as you usually are, and say what you usually would say in whatever circumstances your living has evoked daily. While you are doing this observation, also turn it onto what you say to friends, and others in general, and what all these say to you spontaneously, off the top of your heads…

When you hear something you say that rings this language bell, write it down, ie. make a list. You might surprise yourself. Don’t be too hard on yourself, since all cultures’ peoples are suppressed to fall into these similar wishy-washy, doubt enabling, actually negative-leaning words and phrases.

All are geared to get you to look to an authority outside yourself, so you will not think for yourself. So you will not exercise the Genius within…so that eventually you will not challenge the Powers That Be, literally, in any way. We are wanted to be like lemmings, senselessly following the lead of any strong figure that attracts us in our particular domains.

Strength of thought, strong intentions, and the persistence in follow-through steps toward what we want is what we are concerned with here. We are becoming Self Leaders. As a Self Leader, we literally do not want to allow our betrayal by the language we select! Discernment is paramount. Being able to see our way clearly to what we want is our goal, while interrupting our “mysticisms” that interfere.

We are wanting to pick the exact right words that fully express what we are about and want to accomplish.

This is enough for today…Happy Observation to All!

Lovingly, 
Lila Bennett

Doing better means you think for yourself, and when you don’t you just have to accept what comes your way.  Are you willing to accept what comes your way?   How can you accept that?  Are you doing your best?   

Do you understand that you have all the power, but, often hand the “reigns over”?  We fall in love, we become engrossed with a TV show or books, we follow another, and sometimes, we lead the way.   

Whatever keeps you from spending time doing something just for yourself, needs to be “kicked to the curb” regularly, so that, you reflect on your own purpose.  You need to know what makes you happy and makes “Life worth living”.  That is your purpose.  If you don’t figure it out for yourself, “who in the heck” will? 

Shoot for the stars, find the “Blue Sky”, have “No Fear”, “Lead with your Heart” and you will start to feel like “Life is worth living” again!   Only you know, or can discover, “What turns you on!” 

Quit going to “stand in the corner” by listening to what others think is “Best for you”.  “Figure it out” like a jigsaw puzzle picture.  You are capable when you “Use your own mind”!  Have some fun today… “Think about it!”

When you were young, did you feel better being a spectator or participant?  Can you think about and evoke those feelings once again?  “Adding “Joy to Life” requires conscious thinking, and action, or you wonder “What is the Point of this?”  It’s perspective. Would you rather be a participant, than a “Spectacle, in life”?  You can create the angles or be trapped in “someone else’s angle”. 

When you fail to THINK, are you “out of touch with reality”?  Is that when another easily steps in and “takes-over”?  Does this happen “time-and-time” in relationships, corporations and Countries?  Knowing that “Life Happens” is it evident one must participate or accept being a spectator?  A participant can say “Life is Good!” 

Don’t let it be said of you “You’ve lost touch!”  That is “not a Good Thing”.  Why? First, you are human with abilities to create your own reality, so, don’t let anyone take that away.  If you do or continue this is what you become:  “This little Piggy went to Market” because so many live under the roof you support.  Let’s count them:  yourself, your family, perhaps parents, a fraction of each child in public school, the “Preacher Man”, the President, your Elected Officials, the Police Officer, the Appointed Judge, the “Garbage Man”, the I. R.S. Agent, the Neighbor from a foreign country, your Daughter’s best friend’s “Kid”, and Lord knows who else you “Bring home the Bacon” for!  

Take an account of those you account for today, do you feel like a “Spectacle”?  Write down as many as you can in Two (2) minutes time!  Then, ask yourself “Why?”    Are you more “Able Bodied”?  Today is a “Good Day”, for this exercise because you might not have a “Boss breathing down your Neck!”  Be the Boss today write down something, which frustrates you, to feel empowered!  Then, you can “move on!”

 Discord allows us to think, to reason things through, and avoiding or attacking situations and people, does not allow the real you to come through.  With this gift of life (the human conscious mind), we have the need to think independently according to our biological natures.  Determine whether your thoughts and actions are based in stress or love.  This is a simple tool (a litmus test) to see if you are living the life you are meant to live.  By doing so, you also allow others around you to do the same.

Next train stop, picking-up the little children.  Since we are happier, they will be too, but, we must protect them from the illusion trap.   Let’s ask for a revamp of the school system, so that the presentation of knowledge is built upon children learning:  1) what percepts are, 2) how to build percepts into common denominators, and 3) how to become smarter than possible before with the technology that is available.  

The children, less hindered by society’s pressures, will build a base of concepts looking into all details of perception to reveal and reject all illusions.  Only knowledge, that can be integrated into small puzzles, and, then grown into a wide-scope base of knowledge, will be important to their learning.   

Let’s bring the power of love back to the children.  A return to lecture based classes, followed by integration time, so, the children can feel their worth and we adults feel their power of love! This growing base of knowledge they build is the gift of life to those who contributed life.  This in-turn ensures the success of a country, as self-motivated happy children, remain that from the get-go, and, they will be less likely to be in trouble from boredom or fear of failure.  They will continue in the power of love from cradle to death.

With all the communication going on in your head; of the many voices coming from the energies of which it has connected. You will choose the one that’s more connecting to your solution, and convince is the key to open the doorway to new knowledge; it will freely come, when you choose and convince yourself, you had connected to the right one of the “matter” of energy.  The true searchers of the magnetizing universe of energy; are seeking with thoughts to be united into a first vision. 

One must act upon what one sees the first time. 

Convincing yourself;It is with the love of good thoughts to help mankind