When I was a child my mother would say “Misery loves company!”  The first time I heard it, it seemed abstract, but, I quickly learned it meant I was demonstrating a hurtful behavior.  As if by magic, I would  immediately, change my behavior, to please my mother.  I wanted her love and acceptance and I realized I always felt better because I switched my thoughts to love and my behavior improved too! ...

In previous posts we have looked at why it is important to feel good about yourself and exercises to help increase our good feelings. We have also looked at the differences between men and women and what they need in a relationship to feel satisfied and build continued respect. Now in this post we will tie everything together and reveal some insight on the benefits of a relationship with a Neothink® man or...

The love that grows between a man and a woman is joint value creation.  A man can create value in his work and so can a woman.  The love between them grows when they mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually celebrate each other’s existence.  It is difficult for a man to feel good about himself unless he is creating and developing significant values for himself and others.  He needs to feel valuable...

From the age of 10 he dreamed of becoming a self-made millionaire.  He loved to spend hours tearing down engines and putting them back together again.  He knew someday he would create the fastest car on the race track, and that a beautiful lady would sit in the stands, on the edge of her seat, waiting for him to cross the finish line.  The race would be over, he would be the winner and they would passionately...

How fortunate we (human species) discovered a major difference to the animal kingdom thousands of years ago.   The discovery of consciousness and our ability to feel, think, learn, and grow.  With honest thought and effort we consider facts to alter our own reality also known as “what is”.  Failing to stay in the “what is” one will follow and fail to use that gift, the conscious mind.    Upon...

We don’t stay where we aren’t wanted.  We don’t remain happy in a job that gives us no staying opportunities.  We may remain there for financial gain, but we slowly die in stagnation.  The same can be said for all relationships.     Without reasons to stay, our brain no longer functions the way it is designed to because we don’t get to properly exercise it when we are bored.  We feel no emotion,...

Power must be truly earned if it is to last.  Think about the power you felt riding a bike; the freedom, the control in your moment on that bike.  You had to exercise your mind and body to keep the wheels spinning and heading the right direction.   Oh, the power of that relationship.   You usually had a destination in mind before you jumped on the bike (Yes, jumped…).  You had someplace, something or...

What will you do for desire?   Tying the knot can mean many things, including getting married as one satisfies a lifelong desire.  Hope that life suddenly improves upon exchanging rings and vows. Do you honestly believe that you have instant control of the relationship?  Or that your partner is forever officially sealed in love by the ring?  How can that be so? Only you can make it so by fueling your desires...

Why do the differences between men and women matter in a relationship?  The key to any relationship is happiness and respect, happiness with who you are, what you want out of life, and whom you are with. To have a clear understanding of all of this you need to delve into the details of what makes you happy on all levels. If you are happy, chances are that you will have a happy relationship as well.  As a woman,...

In this chapter we delve into the differences between men and women and why it matters.   Men and women have fundamental differences when it comes to relationships. These differences comprise how they view themselves, their lives and what they truly need in a life partner.   We will start with women in general first. Women are the more feeling and emotional of the two sexes. This is not to say that men are...